NLP Newsletter – Electricity in the air

Happy New Year A fresh year. Can you feel the electricity in the air? This is the time of the year when I take time to reflect on the on the past year. I have concluded that 2015 was a tough and playful year. This is also the time of year to plan and set goals for the...

Change how you think and change your life

Richard Bandler tells a story About his friend who was nervous about asking someone out for a date. Richard said, “what is going on in your head when you are about to ask someone out?” His friend said, “the room goes silent and a little voice goes it will be alright.”...
A Great Question to Open Possibilities

A Great Question to Open Possibilities

My wife was angry. The foot strap on our new baby buggy had broken and the shop refused to replace or fix it for her as it was out of warranty ….by just one day. I then suggested that I would go to the shop to return it for an exchange. With some surprise, she turned...
The secret of getting your partner to pick up the milk after work

The secret of getting your partner to pick up the milk after work

Tracy told me about her method of getting her husband to remember to pick up milk and bread. Now this might seem like a small thing, but when something as small as this can lead to an argument and create a heated reaction like “You don’t listen to me” or “I’m going...
You can’t handle the feedback

You can’t handle the feedback

You have just spent hours working really hard on a project. No, let’s get this into perspective – you poured your heart and soul into it, the extra mile is so far in your rear view mirror that it’s a dot on the horizon. Then someone says those...