by John
Richard Bandler tells a story About his friend who was nervous about asking someone out for a date. Richard said, “what is going on in your head when you are about to ask someone out?” His friend said, “the room goes silent and a little voice goes it will be alright.”...
by John
Tracy told me about her method of getting her husband to remember to pick up milk and bread. Now this might seem like a small thing, but when something as small as this can lead to an argument and create a heated reaction like “You don’t listen to me” or “I’m going...
by John
Change your life with NLP The development of NLP has resulted in a number of presuppositions that seem to be useful in our attitude towards the world and to the development of ourselves. It is important to remember that there is no claim that these presuppositions are...
by John
Move from procrastination to action “My own behaviour baffles me. For I find myself doing what I really hate, and not doing what I really want to do!” Saint Paul (Romans 7:15) “Never put off till tomorrow, what you can do the day after tomorrow.” Mark Twain It can be...
by John
Update Your Unconscious Mind Help! I’ve been asked to give a talk Hands begin to shake. Legs wobble. Dry mouth and the small of the back starts to perspire. Susan had been asked to give a talk. This reaction made no sense as Susan was normally a confident and...